Sitting here next to my dad-in-law in the hospital. He’s not responded since Monday night. My mom-in-law has been telling stories of their life together. She holds his hand. Kisses his forehead. Reassures him that she’s here. Even when he doesn’t respond.
Being here puts everything into perspective. There are others in this hospital walking similar journeys. I recognize the look in their eyes. Looking past you, lost in thought. Maybe looking somewhere far into their past, at a day that didn’t feel so weighty. Perspective. It’s a beautiful thing. A gift even. I pray I’ll keep a bit more of it going forward.
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Because it is so fresh in my mind that I can relate… huge {{{hugs}}} to you my sweet, sweet cyber friend. There is great comfort in sharing memories. I just paused a prayed for comfort and peace for your family. ~Lanie
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God bless all of you.
“Precious in the eyes of the Lord is the death of His saints.”- Psalm 116:15
You are on Holy Ground.
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Praying these memories will be sweet for Mike and you. I love you.
I have been in those shoes. I pray you will continue to make and cherish your beautiful memories and that God will comfort all.
I’ve enjoyed my first visit. You really need to hop over and post one of these great fall dessert recipes with us!!
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Although my mom was responsive for most of her final 6 weeks it was still heart-wrenching to sit there and watch someone so vibrant and lively go away. I can remember her waking up and saying, “Oh I’m still here.” Never will forget that. Her home, her true home, was heaven. She knew that looked forward to that. Love to you and the hubs.
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What a beautiful post. Your dad-in-law and family are in my prayers.
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My heart goes out to you. Prayers and love for you.
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Oh, I do pray that you will know peace that surpasses ALL understanding and that God will be glorified, as I know He will, through the testimony of your family and their walk thru this difficult time. I pray you will be comforted and know and be able to rest in the God of the universe who cares for His own.
Suzanne
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Praying for peace and comfort for all of you! What a beautiful sentiment about perspective and something I will take to heart as I continue on in my own sacred journey with my father. Prayers and love to you.
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I want to reach through this computer and give you the biggest hug. I am praying for comfort as these days pass. Love you, my sweet friend!
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My thoughts are with you and your family….
just checking in on you… sending much love to you and mike…
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WE sat with my MIL for 2 weeks. And it was, holy ground as someone said. This is a rare opportunity. Your MIL is a STRONG woman. God bless you all! XOXO, Pinky
With you in Spirit…